Domestic violence can take many forms. Some exhibits of violence are clearly abusive while others can be more subtle. Emotional abuse can exist for years, slowly destroying a person’s sense of peace or personal property. Verbal abuse or harassment can exist when one person continually mocks or demeans another. These are both a far cry from a full-on fist fight but all situations, with recurring incidence, can fall under the heading of “domestic violence” when it happens at home.
If you are currently suffering from any kind of domestic violence, the first steps to take are to ensure your own safety and that of your children. One aspect of ensuring this safety might be to get a restraining order.
Temporary restraining orders (TROs) and restraining orders
A temporary restraining order is issued by a judge, when requested, if you can prove you are suffering from domestic violence. When you apply for a restraining order, temporary or not, come prepared to prove your case.
If you need your partner to leave the premises and not approach you at home, work, or at your car, a TRO is a safe option. Depending on the circumstances of your situation, you might also consider requesting that the judge issue a TRO that covers any money transfers or direct communication.
As an attorney familiar with domestic violence cases, I can help you submit your application for a TRO. Temporary restraining orders are usually issued for the period of time lasting until your next court date, when your case will be revisited. Restraining orders, as opposed to TROs, can remain in permanent effect.
If you discover that your spouse or another family member is causing your child harm over a long period of time, or even verbally harassing your child, you have a responsibility to remove your child from the situation and prevent further harm. After ensuring that you and your child or children are safe, contact me for a consultation.
When two people marry, they never expect to divorce. Nor do they expect to be on the receiving end of spousal abuse. Over time, however, relationships can change and one person can eventually become someone entirely different than they were when you married them. If you are suffering from spousal abuse or even suspect you are, please take steps to make sure your safety is guaranteed. Staying with other family or friends if you feel you are in immediate danger is highly recommended. Once you are in a safe situation, please contact me.